Oct 5, 2019Ike Ude and Magatte Wade: How a Portrait Can Change the Way We See Africa“Rise of the Guardians” is an animated movie about beloved character Jack Frost, who is responsible for bringing the joy of winter in which children can have snowball fights and make snow angels. Jack Frost’s deepest longing is to be seen by everyone because it’s lonely being invisible, everyone walking…Africa6 min readAfrica6 min read
Jun 26, 2019What If You Are A Monster?A few months ago I saw this painting. Well, it’s actually embroidered (by hand) which makes it that much cooler. Anyways, It’s the story of a water monster that comes every month to the village and demands a sacrifice to be made to him, in order to stop terrorizing the…Immigration2 min readImmigration2 min read
Feb 28, 2019Why You’re Never Going to Live Your LifeMy mother was much younger than me when she had me. And realizing that, taught me 2 things. 1st, To have more compassion for my parents because they were raising another human being while probably having their own existential crisis at the same time. 2nd, is that we’re not living…Meditation2 min readMeditation2 min read
Oct 8, 2018What it’s Like to Work With An Impatient BusinesswomanWithout hesitation, I dropped everything to come work under the mentorship of Magatte Wade, because I wholeheartedly believed that her dedication to fighting poverty was unlike anything I had seen before. I became inspired by her because at a time when everyone else was thinking about Africa as a helpless…Short Story11 min readShort Story11 min read
Aug 22, 2018Love is, A Leap of Faith. How Mara Brock Akil Teaches Us to Be Bolder“Innocence in an adult is not the same as gullibility or naivety. Rather, it is a quality that comes with maturity and arises out of a lifetime’s experience that trusting in the heart for guidance always proves to be the best way to deal with life’s ups and downs. Innocence…Love6 min readLove6 min read
Jun 21, 2018The Story of how “Love Is__” Went From a Magazine Cutout on my Vision Board, to a TV Show on OWN.It was 2014, when I was scrolling through the February issue of Essence magazine, and I stumbled upon a feature of this black couple, with whom I immediately fell in love. I was enthralled by the way the man leaned into his wife with eyes closed and a soft assured…Love6 min readLove6 min read
May 31, 2018It Don’t Change Nothing. Queen Sugar Review. S3 E1“It don’t change nothing. It’s all good. It don’t change nothing. It don’t. It don’t. It don’t.” These the words Ralph Angel utters at the end of this season premiere. Words that seem half anthem, half prayer, and are perhaps the best way to describe the theme of this episode…Television7 min readTelevision7 min read
Dec 30, 2017#FamilyFeud is the Blueprint We All Need for 2018, Thanks to Ava Duvernay“Well, when I was nine years old Star Trek came on,” Whoopi Goldberg says. “I looked at it and I went screaming through the house, ‘Come here, mum, everybody, come quick, come quick, there’s a black lady on television and she ain’t no maid!’ …Film4 min readFilm4 min read
Dec 14, 2017Why it Matters That Oprah Won the Cecil B DeMille AwardToday I am celebrating Ms Oprah Winfrey, who recently won the Golden Globes Cecil B. DeMille award. It’s given to people who have made a big impact on the entertainment industry, and I couldn’t think of a better person to win this prestigious accolade. From a Body compassion perspective, this…News2 min readNews2 min read
Oct 16, 2017Mayim Bialik’s Words Are Dangerous, Because She Means Well.In her recent Op-ed in the NY Times actress Mayim Vialik offered some words of (what she thought would be) wisdom, regarding the rape culture of Hollywood and society at large. She talks of her own story of flying under the radar of predatory men because thankfully, her plain looks…Sexual Assault5 min readSexual Assault5 min read